A prostatectomy is a surgical procedure of your prostate gland being surgically removed from your body to treat advanced prostate enlargement or prostate cancer. Besides urinary function, this gland plays important role in your sexual abilities.
Due to some ailment or cancer of the prostate if the gland is removed, the ability to have sex may undergo tremendous change. A miniature gland located between your penis and your rectum; the primary function of this organ is to nourish the the semen that mixes with your sperm before you ejaculate.
Post this surgery males are unable to ejaculate as seminal vesicles that create the seminal fluid is removed. Inability to achieve ejaculation does not mean that a male can no longer have an orgasm, just that orgasms will be without ejaculation also known as dry orgasms. Post-surgery, there are many lifestyle changes the patient must make to have a better sex life and keep libido levels in place.
Risks Of Prostatectomy
Just like any surgical procedure, certain complications that can occur after prostatectomy:
Urinary incontinence:
Urinary incontinence involves uncontrollable, involuntary leaking of urine, which in most cases improves with time
Erectile Dysfunction:
Recovering of sexual function may take up to a few years after surgery. Sometimes one may not be able to recover fully at all
Sterility:
Prostatectomy is a procedure that cuts the connection between the testicles and the urethra causing retrograde ejaculation. A man may be able to have an orgasm but will not be able to ejaculate. This is called dry orgasm
Lymphedema:
Although a rare complication, if lymph nodes are removed during prostatectomy, fluid may accumulate in the genital region causing pain and inflammation. Sexual intercourse may be impossible at this stage
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There is no denying that prostatectomy changes your sexual experience, but men can certainly enjoy a better sexual experience by making lifestyle changes, with help of therapies, and using certain medications.
After all, it’s in the mind! Instead of getting overwhelmed and stressing out, look for a solution. Here are a few dos and don’ts to maintain an active sex life after surgery.
Do Not Overstress
Erectile dysfunction after prostate surgery is very common. Although most men regain the ability to get an erection in a few months’ time, there are few who develop persistent erectile dysfunction. In case this happens, do not get emotionally disheartened. Arousal is a state of mind besides a bodily function. Look for alternatives.
Make Lifestyle Changes
Switch to healthy habits to maintain a healthy weight. Exercising regularly improves your cardiovascular health and helps you recover quickly from the surgery.
Smoking Is A Definite No
Not just bad for health, nicotine is bad for your libido too. If you have been smoking, this is indeed the time to say bye-bye to nicotine forever.
Limiting Alcohol Consumption
Trust us, alcohol is an aphrodisiac, long-term drinking can damage your nerves. In fact, alcohol can dampen mood, decrease sexual desire, and make it difficult for a man to achieve an erection. A drink or two may boost arousal or subjective sexual desire but excessive alcohol consumption specifically after prostatectomy is not recommended.
Try Alternative Treatment
Other forms of treatments, such as injectable medications or penile prosthesis under a physician’s supervision and advice may help you to enjoy healthy sex life.
Experiment With Other Forms Of Intimacy
Sex every time does not have to be just the usual sex. There are many ways to get physically intimate that can stimulate your nerves. These aroused nerves will send more signals helps our brain and help us achieve an orgasm.
Communicate With Your Partner
When it comes to sex, clearing your fears by having an honest conversation is important. Instead of assuming, speak about adjustments that you may need to stay intimate. Support is the key.
Visit A Sexologist
Visiting a sex therapist is one of the ways to help you and your partner find ways to improve your sex life. They may prescribe medications that may ease anxiety levels and help you plan to indulge in a stress-free lovemaking act.
